tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633274511696051573.post5890830550339495084..comments2023-05-03T09:04:33.669-07:00Comments on Breaking the Silence: My mother is in denial!!!!!tarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03404356898310412228noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633274511696051573.post-77195692432567686812012-04-30T10:42:07.134-07:002012-04-30T10:42:07.134-07:00Thank you for your kind words. In appreciate it. I...Thank you for your kind words. In appreciate it. Im ok now. I have been praying and I leave everything in God's hand. I know my mom will be in denial for a long time. I know what happened to me. I wouldn't lie about abuse. I pray that God will open her eyes one day and she will see that truth. It will happen. Thank you for everything. :) God bless.tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03404356898310412228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633274511696051573.post-52815026500729545372012-04-30T07:23:25.096-07:002012-04-30T07:23:25.096-07:00Bravo tara! i am ur biggest fan,too many words i w...Bravo tara! i am ur biggest fan,too many words i want to say, i felt like hugging you and reasuring you that it would be ok, i hear and feel what you left unsaid, and trust me i do know what you feel. I admire your courage and strenght! God continue to strengthen you and use u.<br />Always remember you can never hold hold a candle up for others and remain in darkness.<br />Stay Blessed!DeltaWomenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06719213220465708348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633274511696051573.post-59837475532967209492012-04-12T16:27:14.944-07:002012-04-12T16:27:14.944-07:00Thank you i appreciate you believing me. It means ...Thank you i appreciate you believing me. It means alot. I know abusers are manipulative. I just hate that when i tried to tell her years ago she just shut me up. And then made me apologize to him for saying what i said. I should have never said anything. Sometimes i still feel like what happened to me isnt such a big deal but i know it is. Its still hard but thank you for your support. It means alot. God bless you and your family and i hope your children are ok.tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03404356898310412228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633274511696051573.post-42897602694301853852012-04-12T13:30:11.389-07:002012-04-12T13:30:11.389-07:00Maybe its shock, maybe and I know through experien...Maybe its shock, maybe and I know through experience that to abuse a child you have to first get past the mother, mothers are groomed too, sometimes whole families. It is all very complicated to explain here. But even as a society long before you and I were born grooming took place. Abusers are very clever and manipulative and can plant the seed of doubt about a child well before abuse takes place. Or maybe for your mum its just shock. after 4 years I am still in shock. My children were abused, I know it I accept it but that it actually happened under my nose, I don't think I can get over that shock. I see you growing in strength Tara, I am mother and I believe you too. Take care M4J :)mother4justicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05120129056628486549noreply@blogger.com