I said this once before and i will say it again. I am tired of people talking badly about us being raped and molested. Im tired of people making joking and/or blaming the victims for what happened to us. Do you honestly think that we asked to get raped/molested? No the hell we didnt. Sorry for the language but im tired of either being blamed that its our faults or that we are not believed. People prefer to believe the abuser over the victims. It should matter how we dress or act the night it happened, it shouldn't have happened in the first place. It doesn't matter if you were considered a slut or not, you didn't deserve to be raped/molested. Its not our faults that we were in the hands of abusers. Its not our faults that we didn't have anyone to talk to about this situation. Its not our faults.
SO I SAY TO YOU DO NOT DARE TO SIT THERE AND SAY THAT ITS OUR FAULTS. THAT WE ASKED TO GET RAPED/MOLESTED. YOU COULD BE THE CRUELEST PERSON IN THE WORLD BUT NO ONE UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DESERVES TO ENDURE THIS TYPE OF PAIN IN THEIR LIVES.
WE NEVER WANTED THIS BURDEN UPON US. IT WASNT OUR FAULT THAT NO ONE PROTECTED US. IT WASNT OUR FAULT THAT WHEN WE TOLD SOMEONE THEY DIDNT WANT TO BELIEVE US. ITS NOT OUR FAULTS.
SO ONCE AGAIN I SAY TO YOU DO NOT DARE TO SAY THAT ITS THE VICTIMS FAULT AND DO NOT JOKE ABOUT THIS MATTER. IM TIRED OF PEOPLE NOT TAKING THIS SUBJECT SERIOUSLY. SO MANY UNTESTED RAPE KITS OUT THERE AND NO ONE WANTS TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
WE CAN HEAL BY SHARING OUR STORIES AND STAYING STRONG. WE CAN GAIN OUR LIVES BACK AND I BELIEVE BY DOING SO IS 1) SAYING ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. I AM STRONGER THAN BEFORE. MY ABUSERS WILL NO LONGER KEEP CONTROL OVER ME 2) SHARING YOUR STORY WITH OTHERS TO HELP THEM HEAL
Here are a few organizations you can follow on twitter that can help with our situations.
@TheJHF, @RAINN01,
There are others as well but this are the two that have helped me through other survivors stories. Get the help you need. I am here to only speak out and help encourage others to do the same.
It pisses me off how people can make some pretty ignorant comments. One female friend said something about her friend saying she got raped but obviously she was lying because she's promiscuous.. ugh it pisses me off..
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Thats true. But again you cant blame the person who is promiscuous either. it doesnt matter who the person is, it still doesnt give anyone the right to abuse them. No matter how we act its still not our faults. But i do hate how people think they understand us even though they havent been through what we went through. Its hard.
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