Hey everyone. I know its been days since i last wrote something here. Just been busy with work and school. This will be a short post. Just want to make a point and such.
Anyway i want to talk about one of my fears. Although i know it will not happen nor will i ever allow it to happen, i was afraid that i myself would become an ABUSER. I know it wont happen but there are women who are molested as well. In my opinion its rare when you hear cases that involve women vs child. I know men become abusers because most of them have been abused themselves and most of them do not report it so in ways they in turn start to abuse women and children. I was afraid that i may become one. I do not want to. I want to break that cycle. I am ending it now. I AM BREAKING THE SILENCE AND THE CHAIN OF ABUSE. IT ENDS WITH ME. ITS ENDS WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!! NO LONGER WILL WE ALLOW THIS ABUSE TO OCCUR. WE WILL NOT BECOME ABUSERS OURSELVES. WE ARE STRONGER THAN WE THINK. USE OUR VOICES TO KEEP SEEKING JUSTICE AND SPEAKING OUT. LETS END THE ABUSE!!!! WE WILL BREAK THE CYCLE OF ABUSE. WE WILL NOT ALLOW OUR ABUSERS TO MAKE US FEEL WORTHLESS, UGLY, WEAK, FEARFUL. WE ARE BETTER THAN THAT. WE ARE STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, FEARLESS!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM YOUR VOICE AND I STAND UP FOR ALL OF YOU. IF YOU ARE AFRAID I AM HERE. I WILL SPEAK OUT AGAINST ABUSE FOR YOU. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. NOT NOW NOT EVER!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE FREE!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE LOVED. YOU ARE SUPPORTED!!!!!!!
yeah I also was scared that I could become an abuser. I remember when I was with my ex he used to say that I was verbally abusive and kept making him feel like shit..
ReplyDeleteBut I dont think you or I would become abusers. For one an abuser is unable to admit he/ she is an abuser, especially not publicly. They try and show people a good side of themselves - more like they pretend to be someone they're not.
Thank you. I know you and I will not become abusers. Its just something i feared and as you and I, there are others who feel the same way. I posted this to help others realized that they are not alone. We can end this abuse. We can end this fear. We will not be abusers. Not now not ever.
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