Wednesday, May 11, 2011
I just realized that its time to finally please myself and stop pleasing others. Maybe it has to do with what i been through. But every since i was younger i always felt that i had to please others just to get approval and have someone like me or just want to be with me or near me. I would try so hard to please and please and please. But in the end i was never happy but end up exhausted. So from now on i will start doing thing that will make me happy which is actually helping people. You make think im contradicting myself but im not. Theres a differences when you want to help others and pleasing others. Pleasing someone is when your trying your hardest to do whatever for their approval. Helping someone you do because it makes you happy. So its a huge difference. But thats why im now choosing to do things that make me happy instead of the other way around.