Saturday, May 21, 2011

why us?

On my last post a dear friend pointed out something interesting, the fact that we at times struggle and ask ourselves why us? What did i do to deserve this? Well first of all bad things happen to good people which is hard to deal with. Secondly we did nothing wrong to deserve this. You can be the worse person ever but that doesnt give another person the right to violate you. I struggle every day what that myself. Why me? Why? I also ask myself these question but if you really think about it its like saying why couldnt it happen to someone else? I wouldnt wish being molested on any one else. Its hard but if i didnt go through what i experience i wouldnt be the person i am today. Everything we go through we experience for a purpose. As hard as that may sound and your thinking why would anyone allow rape and things like that to happen. Im not saying to let it happen. Im just saying to those who experience it you become much stronger once you speak out and encourage others with your story. God bless you.

1 comment:

  1. you're right... it isn't our fault, and for the most part, i don't think the question is, "why couldn't it be someone else's burden," i think it is more like asking the world, "why does such cruelty even have to happen?" but, you are right. all things do happen for a reason, and God isn't at fault. i wouldn't have my sister-survivors if i hadn't gone through what i did. i wouldn't be exploring me and learning to live my authentic self if my past had not happened, but i still have times when i say, "why me? and why at all?" love ya ladybug ;O)